House on Red Corner

Where the Love is at!

Ok so, I’ve a ways to go

Since I have several places to blog from and subjects to blog about, it seems like it would be simple enough to become a better blogger. If you jump over to my artblog you will see that I have a nice stream of work that I have been producing, but have been slipping on my viewing of other people’s artwork and have not been linking to many other people’s websites. My twitterstream has not exactly been sharilicious either. My home blog is mostly about the way the family has grown and frankly I find it hard to keep up with the pace of that growth, particularly as both kids are blasting past milestones with such abandon.
Recently, I have begun a trial period as a tech blogger for MakeTechEasier and I am looking to see if that can help me get better as it is a more researched set of subject matter and requires more writing skills than just jotting down random thoughts as they occur to me. Fish. Bears, Lions and Tin woodsmen not withstanding my faux randomness.
As there is a great deal of sickness happening in the house at the moment, I thought I’d take this opportunity to throw some words at the internet and hope that they find some place to be read.

7 March 2010 at 12:10 - Comments

Bud has a fever today

After an hour in the shower, which is not unusual for Bud and me in the mornings before I go to work, he was happy to be bundled up in some Pooh clothes, eat some grapes, and sit on Daddy’s lap.

Meanwhile, The Bubster is trying so hard to have real grown-up conversations with us. Last night at dinner she asked “Are these fingersticks?” Well almost. Not fish sticks but chicken fingers. LAter she asked if she could have a Spider-Man costume to wear “at night and in the morning”. I said, “hmmm…”, she said, “But I think you might have to pay one”. Then later she popped her head around her bedroom door: “Are you getting one now?”

So she goes from being Spider-Man to Batman to a fairy princess, to Wolf Girl. I’d say that’s a pretty well-rounded young lady.

2 March 2010 at 11:17 - Comments

Day of Rest

As LittleBud has taken to waking up screaming at 0430 lately and as TheWife has done a lion’s share of calming him down, seeing how she has the equipment he desires, and seeing how tired she looked, I made a decision yesterday. The decision actually came after looking at my Facebook page and seeing a friend of mine share a funny story about her child doing something similar and then after a little sharing back and forth, I looked at the Internet (you know if you squint your browser just right you can see the whole thing, right?) and found out where our old church was meeting now days, and seeing how it was right around the corner, you know ten minutes walk away, sort of like the distance from Peach Ave to the intersection of Jeffress St & North Main St. I bundled up the kids and took both of them to church and let TheWife sleep in the bed or whatever it she does during those extremely rare times she is in the house alone.
People were both surprised and happy to see me and the kids. I got an escort to drop the kids off in their respective play areas and went to have a seat in the auditorium. It was a nice place and a nice service. It was a real pleasure to be able to sit and not worry about anybody needing me or wanting to grab me or something. I escaped into a chair, if you will, and was free to sit there. When it was over and I went to collect the kids, they were fine. TheBubster’s teacher (you call those young ladies who watch the kids teachers, right?) handed me the crayon drawing that you see above and was surprised at her ability to create the composition of Jesus walking on Water from listening to the story. I was not surprised at the technical capabilities but was pleased to see that her retention of details is growing quite well. Anyways, I thought I’d share this little story and the picture with all of you, hope you enjoy!

1 March 2010 at 19:21 - Comments

continuation

My efforts at creativity are continuing; today I posted a new entry on my artblog from my Moleskine project. That’s a fun sort of medium range project that is done in small chunks and does not necessarily require a great deal of effort, it’s just sketch, draw, ink and color.

My large project has tons of little cardboard squares to be cut out and glued together to make a mixed media mural on cardboard and paper. I am also not quite finished printing out the image matrix; I keep running out of colored ink for the printer. I am two rows from the end of that portion of the project. After that I have to attach the matrix to the backboard and then begin the slow process of glueing the cubes onto the surface, that is after the cubes are painted.

TheBubster has been helpful with this project although at the moment she is mad about having to take a bath, while Bud is very comfortable drink his bottle of milk next to me on the couch. We have such a good time together all day long, the three of us. Art is just one of the many things we do, but the lessons are always on.

24 February 2010 at 19:16 - Comments

Back again

It has been nearly three years since I last was able to freely create as I wanted. University has taken a great deal of my mental space and the kids have taken an equal share of the emotional space that I used to reserve for producing art. Now that things are beginning to transition again, I am finding time and space for more creativity.
First of all I am putting my work on its own website, Nacreo.us. This is serving as the backbone for my art works, whichever media I am experimenting in. The is blog, of course, that I am using to document my efforts. I have tried to go visit galleries in NYC since we moved here, but I got a little sidetracked from this objective during the final few weeks of University. Now, I should be able to get back to those visits.
I have also embarked upon a journey within a Moleskine notebook as part of a greater project called Escape into Life. Additionally, I am submitting the images from my notebook into a Flickr Group of the same name.
Finally, I have a large multimedia project up on the wall of the bedroom that is slowly taking form. Currently, I am laying an image matrix on the backdrop before beginning to add color layers in bas relief. Certainly, there will be something that begins to take shape in my life as the result of all this activity. i have a strong belief after looking through some past notebooks that this is certainly an area which I am well suited to producing great work, as well as having an interest in the advances and skills necessary to compete within the field. So it is to pursue the stated goal and create like an artist.

24 February 2010 at 19:09 - Comments

How to pay the piper

As part of my personal goal to get a bakfiets, TheBubster and I took a trip downtown today to look into a shop that is rumored to sell unusual used bikes. I had read their website that indicated that they closed last fall but people kept telling me about them, so I chose to do some old fashioned investigation; the shop was definitely not there anymore.
There is more happening with regard to getting this bike. First of all, we are running pretty heavy into some budget trouble, well trouble might be the wrong word, perhaps we’ll just say budget difficulty. Since we had a big move from Boston to here in the last couple months, our finances are having some strain, plus there is a private school that TheBubster fits into quite nicely that needs a tuition paid. Realistically, it has come down to one or the other. The Bike or The School.
Given this choice, TheBubster wants the bike, because she loves her family. Of course, the choice was framed as “The Bike so you can have adventures with Daddy” or School, which followed the question, “do you want to go to school or stay home with Daddy?” Frankly, I can not blame her. If I had been given the same options as a four year old, I would certainly have chosen to go on adventures everyday with my Daddy, riding in a big bucket on a bike would have made it even more awesome!
We have not fully made this decision, but I suspect that we will take her wishes highly into account when the final result is calculated.
Anyways we still do not have a bakfiets.

15 February 2010 at 16:26 - Comments

How to get a college degree

“One massive undertaking completed; my brain is not what it used to be, its better!”

How I did it: This is not a continuation of another series that I started to prove my undying desire to own a bakfiets, rather this is about a goal that I set for myself a long time ago (see image below for dated entry) Well, now it’s over. I turned in my last assignment on Friday and got the grade back this morning. I got a C in my final class and this gives me a 3.3 GPA overall, which makes me proud to be completed. I am certain that I learned tons of stuff especially as it was all done at online University and required a great deal of self-motivation and organization, particularly the times I was taking three courses simultaneously, or the other times when I was spending a greatdealoftime travelingoverseas, all while having and raising a couple of kids, well they might have actually raised me but don’t let that get out too much

Anyways, it’s all done except for the marching down the aisle and apparently waiting for the sheepskin to arrive in the mail sometime this century.

Lessons & tips: Get organized. 

I used some GTD tips by David Allen squeezed into the calendaring software on my computer, as well as other resources like Remember the Milk to stay on top of projects and tasks. At times, I used Google Docs almost exclusively for my document needs, especially when I was traveling and needed to make certain my data was safe.

Resources: Google was my friend. 

Wikipedia was helpful for starting off research, gives you a good idea of what is known and where to find that knowledge.
Amazon had textbooks at half the price the school bookstore was charging.

It took me 4 years.

It made me Proud

14 February 2010 at 02:22 - Comments

A series of posts where I start begging

Currently, the morning routine involves dragging a stroller and two kids down four flights of stairs, moving several blocks away and then dragging the same two kids and stroller down two more flights of stairs to the subway platform. Then when we arrive at our stop, I drag the stroller up two flights of stairs to leave the MTA system and walk a few blocks to the school where I drag the stroller up four flights of stairs to drop the eldest child off at her school. Then I turn around and go home so that the youngest one can climb the ladder all day, he usually naps during this part of the commute. Later in the day, I do the same round trip all over again.

“Well at least you don’t need a gym membership.” I hear people saying.

“You sure get your workout in, dontcha!” others will carp at me.

True, and very valid points. But I’d much rather travel around the city in Dutch Style. A nice long bakfiets to pop the kids into for jaunty trips through the city would be completely ideal. I have looked around the internet and found several importers of these fantastic bikes.

“But what about gigantic snowstorms?” you might ask. What about them? i will gleefully respond. My intention will be to ride through them. We did this in Cambridge, with our bike and trailer up until the point where the temperature fell into single digits AND I had an infant AND then the bike was stolen off the porch. Well, now that we are in NYC, and there is history of me and bicycles in this city, plus NYC is best experienced by bicycle, it would only be the best solution for our family. Then the youngest child could get his ladder climbing in during the up and downs at the school for the oldest one and I can leave humping the stroller to when TheWife wants to take one or both off on their own little adventure.

So, as I have a graduation soon, and a birthday and an anniversary and I’m a nice guy who doesn’t want much, and you are all nice people and there is a pressing need and and and and and and….

….can I have a bakfiets, please!!!?!?!?! Can I? Can I? Can I? Please, pretty please!

10 February 2010 at 11:17 - Comments
nathan
PLEEEEAAAAAASSSSSSSEEEEEEE!!!!
10 February 10 at 11:18

Updated

This week, when I have arrived at the school to get TheBubster I have found her sword fighting with a trio of ten year old boys, playing and winning at Go with a 17 year old girl, and lining up cardboard houses to play solo in the hallway with some dolls made out of wire. Tomorrow there are plans for an ice skating expedition. Yesterday, Bud was a model, literally he was a model. He went to an advertising agency, and sat in front of a photographer and had his picture taken. Afterwards the Art Director informed me that nearly every frame take of him was usable. He’s such a happy and well adjusted baby.

At home, the kids love to play together and frequently soak the floor of the bathroom during bath time. Yesterday, they were expressing displeasure at how hot the bath water was, until I dumped a whole tray of ice cubes into the water for them to play with. That totally changed everything as the toys suddenly had to avoid icebergs and glaciers. Yes, TheBubster called them that. Her vocabulary has exploded during the short amount of time at this new school. Her understanding of things is increasing rapidly as well, but her ability to focus or tune out the rest of the world remains unchallenged.

4 February 2010 at 00:40 - Comments

When given a choice between

mommy reading her a chapter of The Last Unicorn and curling up with the Economist, theBubster chose the Economist.

1 February 2010 at 23:46 - Comments